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[quote=Anonymous]NP here. I don’t know WHAT is going on in this thread. I read most of posts and skimmer others. It seems like one or multiple people are really really ticked off by OP’s post and felt need to lash out at her.

Regardless of weight, issue is the lifestyle has led to serious health issues.

Anyway, OP, this is not your business in terms of doing something or intervention, especially since you mentioned your SIL has never brought it up with you. It would be a violation of boundaries for you to intervene without your SIL’s invitation. Therefore you need to defer this back to your SIL’s husband. He needs to figure this out with his wife. If he is so busy and would like home cooked meals there are cooked delivery services out there. I frequently place these for my own family. They are pricier but if he has the means and this is such a big issue that he is talking about it with you then this should be no problem.

Also, you guys need to stop talking about SIL weight and food topic behind her back. Just a NO. If DH brings it up you shut it down and say “we are sorry this is so hard but you have to speak directly to your wife about this. We love you both it’s not our place to get involved.”

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