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[quote=Anonymous]Bull. How do you know sex with other people is different and unsatisfying if you haven't cheated? You say you crave sex with your husband but are you really saying you don't fantasize about other men? About people you meet? You aren't tempted? I just don't buy it. I mean, you can choose not to cheat but I think it's a cop out to pretend that some one else's penis would be OH SO TERRIBLE and NOT EVEN SEXUALLY SATISFYING based on conjecture. Isn't this the same crap where people pretend that they don't notice other good looking people when they get married? Maybe it would be not amazing but better than nothing. What about some flirting or online sex? You have to rationalize that you don't want other men so that you don't really have to consider infidelity.

I think I'm just reacting against the passivity in the posts. People have lots of options but choose not to exercise them. You choose not to force your partner to counseling, you choose not to threaten divorce (not even for leverage, cos you don't want to "hurt anyone"), you choose not to cheat, you choose to stay married, you choose not to indulge in a bit of harmless online flirtation/web sex. But then it's like woe is me! I have NO OPTIONS. I stay for the KIDS. You have plenty but you choose not to exercise any of them.

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