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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH does not see himself that way.  He always attributes the low freq to various stresses or situations that change.  But he is the constant.  A therapist told me that I may need to accept that DH is low desire in order to stay in the marriage.  I do.[/quote]

If you were to tell him flat-out (or if you have already said this) "I need more sex and affection to be happy in a marriage and I feel like I have tried everything I can think of to help you have more desire for sex. At this point, I am accepting that you are giving me the most you can. I cannot continue in a marriage at this level of sexual activity. Please help me decide what to do next.". What would he say?[/quote]

Full medical checkup -- no problems.  Like PP's DH mine will not accommodate me in any alternative fashion.  I could never say that I cannot continue in our marriage because I must and will.  I can't even imagine how hurt he would be if I intimated that I were thinking of divorce.  I know it works for many people but it's not an option for me unless there is an affair.[/quote]

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