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[quote=Anonymous]OP, this is too much for one person , one nanny or one mom or one grandmother. Especially if they are rambunctious, mischievous, high-energy. Suggestion (from a mom of multiples) 1. Budget full-time daycare/school/camp for all three kids Monday-Friday 8:30-4:00. Yes this is expensive. Divorce is more expensive emotionally and financially. 2. Budget two separate part-time Nannies (one morning nanny and one afternoon nanny). The Nannie's do pick ups and drop offs. Offer the nannies opportunities to cover for each other or pick up extra hours on Saturdays or Sunday's , which may help you expand your community of care. 3. Outsource all major housework (Kitchens, Bath, Laundry) depending upon the size of the house. Hire a task rabbit to come in and clean the childrens room(s) once per week. 4. Get a therapist stat to speak about post-partum feelings and hitting the reset button. Remember you can't control your husband, but you can control you. [/quote]
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