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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP you are a free loader. Your husband is apparently fine with this, but he’s also apparently fine supporting his parents too. You can’t really complain since you are doing the exact same thing they are.[/quote]

Troll is back. [/quote]

Not a troll. She has no job and no children with this man, or any children in the home. She is his second wife. How can she complain that her parents want to live rent free in his house?[/quote]

Literally nothing on your list is a requirement to be met to not be lied to by your spouse.[/quote]

When did he lie?[/quote]

He told her the agreement was they were purchasing the house and the in laws were vacating the house.[/quote]

What if that was the agreement and then the in-laws health/situation changed? You make it like it was some sinister plot to deceive OP. There is absolutely no proof of that.[/quote]

If the situation changed then it needed to be discussed with OP, the DH doesn’t get to decide he’s moving back in with mommy and daddy and expect a grown woman to just go along with it. It doesn’t have to be “a sinister plot” the facts are clear that he lied, and again, not being lied to has nothing to do with whether you work outside the home. [/quote]

Women don't like this answer, but when they have no assets or income source of their own, they lose most of their leverage in financial and life decisions. Their house is sold, he can say they are moving in with the parents. She can threaten to leave, or actually do it, but other than that she really can't do anything else. Doubt she wants to support herself after 10 years. She can pitch a fit to him, and he may give in or he may not. We have no way to know.[/quote]

She has exactly the same leverage a woman with a job has in this situation: don’t move in. They’ve been married ten years, she’s entitled to half of everything. I’d check into a five star hotel on the joint credit card and move into the new home when it’s previous owners vacated, and I have a job. No reason she can’t do the same, he’s on the hook to pay for her until a divorce settlement is in place.[/quote]

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