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[quote=Anonymous]Neither of us is in a job where we travel. 
But, after 25 years, I did. I told him immediately. I thought we were ok but then he did (twice), and blamed it on my cheating. Also, I caught him in the act. That was fun.
Anywho, we worked it out - hard core worked it out and it took years. There were 3-4 years where I thought there is NO WAY this will work and it was all based on the lack of trust. But it did. We recommitted to each other. 
Now, things are different. We actively work on our relationship and are each other's best friends. I am at the point in this where I can say I'm glad it happened. We would not be where we are now if it hadn't. We wouldn't have done the work on ourselves and our relationship. Full trust came back after about 7 years. For us, it was worth it to slog through it.

I think many people cheat because many people are unhealthy themselves, that's where it stems from. I know in my case, I just let life happen to me. I wasn't intentional about anything, I couldn't have told you my values, etc. I had to be very clear about how I wanted to live. Most people aren't. And that's where the cheating comes in. I think it happens a LOT!

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