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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They want a housekeeper that they can have sex with on demand.[/quote]

Really? You’re telling me a wealthy doctor needs to marry a poor foreign woman to afford house cleaning??? Doesn’t sound like someone even remotely well off…[/quote]

Omg no. 
Many women in eastern europe are raised with the clear understanding that the man is superior. And everything they do is catering to him and with a haply attitude. Not like a paid housekeeper. But making all his favorite foods, cleaning daily, ironing clothes, hot breakfast on table, greeting with a smile and hair done and dinner ready when he is home. Never asking for any household help. Seriously. Im russian but not raised like that. My cousins were shocked that my husband washed dishes and changes diapers. It didn't occur to them to even see if their husbands would do any of that. [/quote]

Why raise daughters to have that status?  That makes no sense to me as a mom of daughters.  Mine will have their own money and power if I raise them to do nothing else.  The partners they choose will be partners, not employers of my daughters as domestic servants.[/quote]

I felt a lot of pressure from my family in Moscow to get married by age 25. My mom thought sleeping or co-habilitation was a sin, and that I just HAD to give her grandchild and get married. 
Generally you get married younger in Eastern Europe, and highly educated women in Moscow are under a lot of pressure to marry by 25 or so. I declined a full scholarship from Columbia Law school when I got  married to my  American husband, whom I met online and only dated for a year. I do believe if I had moved to NY on scholarship as a young professional, I would have done way better in life. But I only realized it after living in the US for many years. My marriage was actually a setback and I should have never married him. [/quote]

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