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Anonymous wrote:They want a housekeeper that they can have sex with on demand.

Really? You’re telling me a wealthy doctor needs to marry a poor foreign woman to afford house cleaning??? Doesn’t sound like someone even remotely well off…

Omg no.
Many women in eastern europe are raised with the clear understanding that the man is superior. And everything they do is catering to him and with a haply attitude. Not like a paid housekeeper. But making all his favorite foods, cleaning daily, ironing clothes, hot breakfast on table, greeting with a smile and hair done and dinner ready when he is home. Never asking for any household help. Seriously. Im russian but not raised like that. My cousins were shocked that my husband washed dishes and changes diapers. It didn't occur to them to even see if their husbands would do any of that.

Why raise daughters to have that status? That makes no sense to me as a mom of daughters. Mine will have their own money and power if I raise them to do nothing else. The partners they choose will be partners, not employers of my daughters as domestic servants.

Sure. I think you are delusional to think you will have that much control over your adult children. One thing I know is children are individuals and will find their own way. If your DD wants to be a SAHM or marry for marry for money it is not the same as being a domestic servant.

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Anonymous wrote:The ultimate in misogynistic men. He can always threaten to not sponsor her citizenship if she declines anything.

That’s not how immigration works. Once he brings her over on a fiancée visa they have 6 months to get married.

After the wedding she can apply for citizenship after 3 years He doesn’t need to sign anything. He doesn’t sponsor her or any weird crap. All she has to do is produce the marriage certificate. Oh, and she gets a green card when she gets married. The green card (officially called permanent resident) allows her to stay indefinitely.

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Anonymous wrote:They want a housekeeper that they can have sex with on demand.

Really? You’re telling me a wealthy doctor needs to marry a poor foreign woman to afford house cleaning??? Doesn’t sound like someone even remotely well off…

Omg no.
Many women in eastern europe are raised with the clear understanding that the man is superior. And everything they do is catering to him and with a haply attitude. Not like a paid housekeeper. But making all his favorite foods, cleaning daily, ironing clothes, hot breakfast on table, greeting with a smile and hair done and dinner ready when he is home. Never asking for any household help. Seriously. Im russian but not raised like that. My cousins were shocked that my husband washed dishes and changes diapers. It didn't occur to them to even see if their husbands would do any of that.

And what's wrong with this? If the man is able to provide a strong home, family, money, future financial stability, comfortable retirement...that's the deal right? That is what SHE GETS for doing HER JOB because HE IS DOING HIS JOB. What is wrong with that?

The issue you have is women in other countries have different priorities than you. Since they are different it's wrong. In their eyes you are wrong. In reality neither are wrong.

I agree with you that SAHM is a job, but then what I see is these men also tend to lack any control themselves and they don't have respect for the woman in the way that they are equals. They make bad decisions, don't show affection and get bored. Become violent. There is no check on them. Have you ever seen the movie Sleeping with the Enemy? Julia Roberts was beautiful and did everything for him and he was still a monster.

Anonymous wrote:Was I a mail order bride ? I don’t know. I am Russian, met my exH online at 24, when he was 35 and already divorced once. He’s also Russian and said he just looked for someone of same culture. I was a lawyer in Moscow, and all my boyfriends were wealthy (oil, gas, legal, banking, security services “covering” businesses). I am 5.9 and was very good looking in my 20s. I would say, my American online date was not the wealthiest date, but I fell for him because he was very driven. We got married within a year, I found legal job in DC right away and worked through our marriage. We had one child. He cheated on me with Serbian woman his age and we recently divorced. He was very controlling, old fashioned husband and not a very engaged dad. Liked sex a lot but got bored after 7 years or (needed toys).
I just think he’s a womanizer and American women wouldn’t have tolerated this. I feel like my life was bulldozed all over and really want to move back to Moscow when my son finishes college.

Anonymous wrote:They are not in it for the relationship, and neither is the bride.

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Anonymous wrote:He likes her personality.

Per personality and her body. If woman took care of themselves as much as they cry over the lack of good men...they would have a good man. Don't be angry because women overseas in poor countries see how amazing most women have it over here, yet are too spoiled to realize it. Be a good wife and mother. Be a good SAHM. Keep yourself health. You're set for LIFE. That's a deal 99% of women will take.

DT is not a good man.

And she actually chose him to be the father of her kid? He traded in wife number one for a new younger model, then trades in wife number two for a new and younger model, and then you want to be wife and mother number three? Blec.

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Anonymous wrote:Father’s friends. They may be wealthy but they are old. Beautiful educated women in developed countries aren’t interested.

There's not a single gold digger in America that wants to marry a 65 year old doctor who lives in an upscale neighborhood?

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Anonymous wrote:They want a housekeeper that they can have sex with on demand.

Really? You’re telling me a wealthy doctor needs to marry a poor foreign woman to afford house cleaning??? Doesn’t sound like someone even remotely well off…

Omg no.
Many women in eastern europe are raised with the clear understanding that the man is superior. And everything they do is catering to him and with a haply attitude. Not like a paid housekeeper. But making all his favorite foods, cleaning daily, ironing clothes, hot breakfast on table, greeting with a smile and hair done and dinner ready when he is home. Never asking for any household help. Seriously. Im russian but not raised like that. My cousins were shocked that my husband washed dishes and changes diapers. It didn't occur to them to even see if their husbands would do any of that.

Why raise daughters to have that status? That makes no sense to me as a mom of daughters. Mine will have their own money and power if I raise them to do nothing else. The partners they choose will be partners, not employers of my daughters as domestic servants.

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Anonymous wrote:He likes her personality.

Per personality and her body. If woman took care of themselves as much as they cry over the lack of good men...they would have a good man. Don't be angry because women overseas in poor countries see how amazing most women have it over here, yet are too spoiled to realize it. Be a good wife and mother. Be a good SAHM. Keep yourself health. You're set for LIFE. That's a deal 99% of women will take.

But you aren't. There are tons of people who still have their husband cheat on them and leave them for their next fling etc. So many good looking SAHM's who were just left by their ex's and now live in apartments.

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Anonymous wrote:They want a housekeeper that they can have sex with on demand.

Really? You’re telling me a wealthy doctor needs to marry a poor foreign woman to afford house cleaning??? Doesn’t sound like someone even remotely well off…

Omg no.
Many women in eastern europe are raised with the clear understanding that the man is superior. And everything they do is catering to him and with a haply attitude. Not like a paid housekeeper. But making all his favorite foods, cleaning daily, ironing clothes, hot breakfast on table, greeting with a smile and hair done and dinner ready when he is home. Never asking for any household help. Seriously. Im russian but not raised like that. My cousins were shocked that my husband washed dishes and changes diapers. It didn't occur to them to even see if their husbands would do any of that.

Why raise daughters to have that status? That makes no sense to me as a mom of daughters. Mine will have their own money and power if I raise them to do nothing else. The partners they choose will be partners, not employers of my daughters as domestic servants.

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Anonymous wrote:He likes her personality.

Per personality and her body. If woman took care of themselves as much as they cry over the lack of good men...they would have a good man. Don't be angry because women overseas in poor countries see how amazing most women have it over here, yet are too spoiled to realize it. Be a good wife and mother. Be a good SAHM. Keep yourself health. You're set for LIFE. That's a deal 99% of women will take.

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Anonymous wrote:They want a housekeeper that they can have sex with on demand.

Really? You’re telling me a wealthy doctor needs to marry a poor foreign woman to afford house cleaning??? Doesn’t sound like someone even remotely well off…

Omg no.
Many women in eastern europe are raised with the clear understanding that the man is superior. And everything they do is catering to him and with a haply attitude. Not like a paid housekeeper. But making all his favorite foods, cleaning daily, ironing clothes, hot breakfast on table, greeting with a smile and hair done and dinner ready when he is home. Never asking for any household help. Seriously. Im russian but not raised like that. My cousins were shocked that my husband washed dishes and changes diapers. It didn't occur to them to even see if their husbands would do any of that.

And what's wrong with this? If the man is able to provide a strong home, family, money, future financial stability, comfortable retirement...that's the deal right? That is what SHE GETS for doing HER JOB because HE IS DOING HIS JOB. What is wrong with that?

The issue you have is women in other countries have different priorities than you. Since they are different it's wrong. In their eyes you are wrong. In reality neither are wrong.