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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In a way it’s endearing that they feel so comfortable at the sister’s home to make themselves feel at home enough to seek out couches for napping.  It sounds like they relish these naps.  It’s their routine for some reason.  I wouldn’t feel comfortable doing this, but they have been doing it for years according to the Op.  Why is this now becoming an issue for you, Op?[/quote]

Exactly this. I find this culture so weird that they’d find napping inconsiderate and unnatural. These people aren’t strangers. Let them be. I wouldnt mind it one bit if my sister or BIL napped at my house. I want them to feel at home. But that’s my culture.[/quote]

I think it’s rude.  You go to someone’s home to enjoy their company, to catch up - not to fall unconscious and make that person feel like they need to be quiet in their own home to make sure you can sleep soundly.  [/quote]

It’s her SISTER. Why are you all so freaking formal with each other even with blood relatives? I don’t get it[/quote]

Is it a white people thing?  It would be very common in my culture where close relatives would feel comfortable enough to nap. [/quote]

Because it’s my sister I would feel the need to be quiet and not disturb her sleep.  But that means I’m not able to do what I want in my own home, and that’s why it’s rude.

But of course my sister wouldn’t do this to me![/quote]

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