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Reflecting on past experiences is part of getting his life on track, which is what the OP asked about.

Priority now is to figure out how to be an adequate father. If he can't figure out what was wrong in his marriage he may make the same mistakes in parenting. Being checked out and not taking responsibility is a good way to make your children hate being at your house and lose respect for you.
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JFC you’re still not getting it. He can do that reflection AFTER the divorce is final. He should emphatically NOT do it between today and that time. Priority now is to make sure he doesn’t get hosed in the divorce and in particular to make sure he gets 50/50 custody. It is absolutely not a priority to figure out what went wrong in the marriage. You obviously haven’t even been reading his comments because he said he was an involved dad, not a checked out one, and there is nothing he needs to do to be a better father.

DCUM women just can’t get past their fixation that “men are bad, everything is their fault, why can’t they stop being bad”. 🙄[/quote]

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