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[quote=Anonymous]I think as we age and grow and change over time, we may want different things.  Kids are biologically not possible naturally for women at a certain age.  Therefore as women, it's a hard decision.  What you feel at age 25.38,42,57 may all be different.  Whereas a man could naturally father a kid at an older age, I suppose adoption is possible for someone but unless you are very well off and could position yourself as a quality candidate to parent, as a woman, good luck with having a kid at an older age.

But if you have a kid you may regret the days and nights and the energy and money on them but chances are I think at least you won't have that yearning and one day they leave you and you still have a life.

It's a really hard thing to say you'll never change.  It's also silly for people not to admit regrets and mistakes.  Those people aren't capable of growing.  It's another thing if you choose not to have kids and are at peace with that choice - however - reiterating that time doesn't guarantee you will always feel the same way.

Personally I would rather err on having kids.  Getting married over not.  To have people and family in your life is worth the gamble.  You gotta try and take that risk of happily ever after v no options ever.  [/quote]

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