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[quote=Anonymous][quote] Anonymous wrote: I think people cheat because they feel unloved, unappreciated, undesired. Yes, they may still love their partner very much. Even be in love with them and want to stay in the marriage. But some of their fundamental needs are going unmet so they cheat to feel satisfied again. To feel like it’s ok for them to have needs, which are often getting shut down due to issues in the primary relationship. It just isn’t so black and white like you love someone and so you don’t want anyone else. I really believe that if your needs are satisfied and you feel good then cheating won’t be appealing — why put in the energy? If people do there has to be a reason.[/quote] This is complete BS and you are a cheater’s apologist. Read this thread. Many, many people cheat because of childhood trauma, sexual abuse, narcissism, mania, etc. Despite what open marriage guy wants you to believe, cheating almost never has anything to do with the spouse.[/quote]
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