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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Women are such bad liars.

A woman married to a 30 year old Sales engineer with a trust fund AND who brings in at least 200k per year, not including bonus, nonchalantly says, "oh, I don't care much for money"

LOL That is why you specifically selected for a guy who had the kind of degree and job prospects to give you the life you want in addition to ensuring he had generational wealth.

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? How many men do you think come from money such that all these women out there are only picking those men?  Yes, *people* with money are catches. You think women from family money aren't great catches?[/quote]

They say “can’t buy me love.”  Untrue. Women often find themselves sexually attracted to rich men. Not so with men. Certainly a man might marry a woman because she’s rich, but her wealth doesn’t make her any more sexually attracted to her. [/quote]
Yes but again, how many rich available men do you think exists in this area such that ALL women are only dating these men.  My  point is that there aren't enough wealthy available men for every single woman to date/marry. So, not all women are dating rich men.

But yes, you have to have something about you that's attractive. If it's not money, the it's something else -- wit, looks, intelligence.. whatever.

How is this really any different to men looking for a catch.  Are men tripping over themselves to date a fat, ugly woman? I don't think so.

Men may not care about wealth, but they care about other superficial things, too, like her looks.   Big boobs attract men; big wallet attracts women.  Shrug.  Why should women feel guilty over wanting a man who can provide her and her children a comfortable life, while a man just wants a hot body to f*ck and not feel guilty about it?[/quote]

Personally I do not think women should feel guilty for wanting to marry rich.

It is, however, a fact that some of us did not have a salary requirement when dating. I did have a "money sense" requirement in that I was not going to marry somebody who would buy dumb crap when they still had student loan debt or who didn't know how vital it is to distinguish wants from needs, but I would have been fine with any salary. Yes DH is now a top 1% earner but I had no idea that would happen when we married in our early twenties. It's like dating somebody before they had their glow-up.[/quote]

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