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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He's an alcoholic. You need to divorce.[/quote]

That's incredibly harsh.   What happened to "in sickness and in health"?

That said- a frank conversation is in order though.  You love him, you planned to be married forever, have kids etc.  And you cant do that in the state he is currently in.  And you want to HELP him, if he is willing to get help.

You dont just instantly divorce.[/quote]

They have had conversations. In response, his drinking has escalated.

OP, this is not someone you will be able to count on. Any kids would be at higher risk for alcoholism and addiction themselves. What if you had kids with him and something happened to you? Would you have given them the most stable and responsible and emotionally functional parent you could? Or would they be left to cope with a drunk alone? Even if he does quit for periods of time, as my father did, you will always be trying to manage life and control things that are not in your control so he does not use again. You deserve better as do your future kids. GET OUT. At your age you will have a lot of choice of quality men.

He has shown you who he is, you expressed concern and his use escalated. What is unclear to you, OP? [/quote]

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