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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Don’t waste the pretty. [/b]Get out now while you can find another partner in your 30s if you want kods.

If you stay, this guy needs to be in active sobriety for at least five years before you should think about kids.[/quote]

My friend just got divorced from her alcoholic husband and they have young kids. It has been so hard on their kids. I would get out now.[/quote]

OP, you are young enough to create a family that will not revolve around alcoholism. Be grateful that this happened when you are so young. Starter marriages are a thing. Work on yourself so you can pick better next time.

His drinking is going to worsen over time, don't let him drag you down too. Do not have sex without backup methods of birth control. Talk to a lawyer and make plans to get out. You will be so glad you did, this has to be driving a lot of anxiety for you. The issue is not even the drinking but the problems that he is using drinking to "solve." There are a lot of nice guys out there who are not addicts and alcoholics. At your age, you can find one. Best of luck to you.

If you had kids and split, you would be surprised at how little courts protect kids in these situation and it can be terrifying and dangerous for them to be alone with a drunk or addict. Jump off the crazy train now and do not inflict it on a new generation. [/quote]

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