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Reply to "DH shoved me to the floor while screaming shut your f’ing mouth…"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP what is the goal of you posting this? To make yourself feel better about staying with your DH? Your tone is superior, but I’m not really sure what you have to feel superior about. From my reading of your situation, it sounds like the professionals don’t want to alienate you because maybe you’re in the gray zone of an abusive-but-not-deadly and since you have kids (it sounds like you do?) they would rather keep an eye and help you and your kids out than have you disappear and not be able to help. It’s a “meet them where they’re at” type of situation, and yes, they’ve all seen far worse because they’re professionals dealing with dysfunctional and dangerous situations. The fact that they shrug about your marriage and violence isn’t exactly a *good* thing. Your situation for someone who doesn’t deal with a DH who physically harms them *should* surprise people in good marriages. If that’s “sheltered” to you because they haven’t experienced violence, then I just feel pity for you.[/quote]
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