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[quote=Anonymous]Here's what we did: Called my mom and in-laws when I went into labor, and they drove in from out of state and went to our small condo. We asked them not to come to the hospital until the baby was born -- more comfortable for them to wait at my house than for hours on end in a hospital waiting room. And I didn't have to deal with them while I was in labor. I wouldn't have minded my own mother there, but I figured I couldn't have different standards and so just asked both sides to stay until grandchild had arrived. Then both sides slept at our place while we were in the hospital (Ended up being four nights because I had a c-section after never progressing during labor.) Husband's parents slept in our queen bed, my mom on the couch. His parents understood when we came home, they had to leave so we could have our bed back. They got to enjoy their new grandchild every day we were in the hospital. My mom continued to stay with us for I think maybe three days or so after we were home, but then she, too, needed to leave so my husband and I could be alone with our new baby for the rest of his paternity leave. Both sides were welcome to return a couple weeks later. I would NOT have wanted my in-laws at my home after coming home -- as previous posters have said your boobs are hanging out all the time. [/quote]
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