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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The happiest, luckiest couples I know have a really great friendship first and foremost. A real friendship, based on fun, common interests, actually being interested in the other person, etc.[/quote] People always say the “be best friends first” line but that is not the case in my experience. I had an ex who was my close friend for years since we had many shared interests. Unfortunately he was very controlling with his romantic partners in way that was not evident with his friends. We were together for quite a while but if I had married him then it would have been miserable. Many men are very different with their friends compared to their intimate partners. Later I ended up marrying someone who has very different interests than my own and it’s safe to say that we would not be platonic friends if we weren’t dating. We do not enjoy the same hobbies but agree on what we want for our lives together and support one another. [/quote]
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