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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op is it that you are living a life you can’t afford? As a physician married to another earner you should have some extra income plus you have another kid on the way.

As a fellow person in medicine whose husband is the default parent due to my long hours- I’m actually team husband here.I think you are under playing how much work he has done to support your career as a physician and maybe he’s trying to tell you in a passive aggressive way that he’s done doing everything on his end and for you to step it up. I’m like you- I enjoy having babies and being pregnant but like being on the floors more and struggle with spending time with my young kids at home because I find in exhausting but then I think about how I just expect my husband to do this type of work all the time for sick days or other things because of how inflexible our medicine can be. It has been me more sympathetic to my husbands needs and we’ve decided to step up our help and support system plus have fewer kids. I’ve noticed that lots of physicians have many kids but the nature of our jobs makes it impossible to do well without help.

In short, reduce your expenses and hire a nanny. And maybe consider the third your last.[/quote]

+100

The happiest one-physician families I know have lots of child are help.[/quote]

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