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[quote=Anonymous]OP, it sounds like you have your game plan to investigate how serious of an issue this is. Doing a dry month together and alternative activities to happy hours, afterward cutting back on drinking some, etc. Then you can take it from there, based on how he's able to handle cutting back the alcohol. If you start to see the signs that he can't cut back and is truly an alcoholic, you'll have a better idea of how to proceed. Whatever happens, please don't get hung up on the "I've already invested 3 years, I can't give up now" fallacy. You're only in your late 20's, and there are many folks on this forum who would give anything to go back and break up rather than just keep going, suffering all that they did afterward, because they had already invested time. Hopefully things will be fine and your parents' worry will be for naught. But don't be afraid to walk away if need be.[/quote]
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