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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Early on he was very nice to me and I got comfortable sharing my vulnerabilities and weaknesses with him.  It didn’t take long for him to use them against me, and know what buttons to push to punish me.  When I withdrew emotionally, he said I was cold and that we need to be each others’ emotional support system.  No way.  I take care of myself by taking care of my responsibilities and having the satisfaction of knowing I’ve done a good job.  I told him he’s free to leave at any time, but he’s stayed. Together [b]we have two great kids, a nice home and a nice life.  Yes it lacks warm and fuzzies but it is much safer and stable this way[/b].  I learned in those early years to throw up that boundary of not letting him near me emotionally.  [/quote]

Not for your kids it's not. In 20 years they'll be posting on here about how their parents never showed any emotions towards each other and the kids were never allowed to express their own emotions. Good times. [/quote]

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