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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Early on he was very nice to me and I got comfortable sharing my vulnerabilities and weaknesses with him. It didn’t take long for him to use them against me, and know what buttons to push to punish me. When I withdrew emotionally, he said I was cold and that we need to be each others’ emotional support system. No way. I take care of myself by taking care of my responsibilities and having the satisfaction of knowing I’ve done a good job. I told him he’s free to leave at any time, but he’s stayed. Together we have two great kids, a nice home and a nice life. Yes it lacks warm and fuzzies but it is much safer and stable this way. I learned in those early years to throw up that boundary of not letting him near me emotionally. [/quote] This sounds like an awful way to live. I can't even imagine. [/quote]
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