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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I learned that my 19 year old daughter is dating/hooking up with a 31 year old man. She seems to be developing feelings for him but I am concerned. Do I say anything?[/quote] How strong is your relationship? What kind of kid is your daughter? Some kids are more rebellious and if you disapprove they want to prove you wrong and continue doing what they want ( like my SIL who married the turd) Or can she take advice and gentle warning? How you answer will affect my advice. If rebellious try not to say anything negative directly but try to flush out why she likes him. Invite them to lunch/dinner and spend lots of time doing stuff and watching the relationship. Try to find out why a 31 year old is interested in a 19 year old. Is he controlling? If she is open ( and after you spent time with him) I would ask these questions more directly. Good luck! I would dread this for my dds[/quote]
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