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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One of my good friends is now doing this for the second time. I don’t get it because she could do so much better. She’s pretty, great career, etc. yet she finds herself being the other woman for now a second time. Please help me understand. Finding it more difficult to hear her vent because I just don’t understand it. [/quote]

Look closely at how her dad abused her in her childhood.  That is the clue to why women get into such positions even when they are not sex-trafficed. They consider themselves soiled goods and so don't care if a non-relative male disrespects them. In fact they see it as a form of love. [/quote]

Shut up, you pathetic, sexist, wannabe Freud. [/quote]

Someones triggered! PP is right it's a symptom of low self esteem for some reason, abuse in some form is not far off.[/quote]

Anyone decent is “triggered” by the misogyny in that post. Grow up for Christ’s sake. [/quote]

Misogyny would be if it was said that all women are worthless and deserving to be sexually used and discarded. This has absolutely not been said.  The legal married wife gets all the respect, support and sympathy for being true to her vows..  The husband is a dog for sure. But the AP female is also someone who is allowing herself to be seually exploited and not finding that objectionable. So the chances that she was  sexually abused by a family member or trusted adult is high. Usually by dad, brother, uncle, grandfather, step dad, teacher, neighbor, priest, doctor - it makes them have very low self-esteem and they would not feel remorse for sleeping with a married man.  Sex abuse of children and women is rampant.

Abused women who indulge in extra-marital affairs are naturally triggered. Not by the post, but the unacknowledged shame that they don't think that their abuse was that bad.,mdid not feel trauma for being defiled. [/quote]

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