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[quote=Anonymous]I have not read through all the comments, but here are some thoughts from someone who has been there: 1. Yes, your husband will likely come to resent doing more/all of the day-to-day stuff. 2. You will both get worn down by what sounds like an absolute grind. 3. The way you are living is not healthy and will not be sustainable once your kid is out of the infant stage. 4. You make $400k. You can absolutely hire cleaners to come in weekly, outsource your laundry, etc., even though you live in NYC. 5. If you want to provide for your kid, the most important things you can do besides the basics of shelter and food, is show your baby unconditional love and provide a stable and happy marriage. Your marriage will not sustain itself, especially with two working parents and a baby. [/quote]
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