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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When he’s 50 get back to me.

Married 24-years.  Sex always no less than 3-4 times per week.

Not a nag. Smart, funny, incredibly fit, hot and being home $200k year. Great mother.

Best friends.

My therapist just had this conversation with me when I said “wtf, I did everything right”.

Her answer: affairs are never about the one betrayed.  It’s what is wrong inside of the cheater.

Like OP, nobody wants to believe that, because it would mean we have no control.

Sorry, you don’t.  Look at some of the incredibly beautiful and talented and warm women you read about cheated on all the time.

It does women a GREAT disservice to be blamed.[/quote]

In fact, some men chose women like this so they can undermine them.  Like people who work other people to death and never appreciate them, but enjoy the care and attention immensely.[/quote]

A narcissists dream.  They hand pick decent people because they know they would never think they are capable of the things they do.

It's true that women are raised to believe if they do everything right they will never be cheated on.  That is not true.  After the shock wears off, you actually realize none of this matter, he was going to do what he was going to do.  It never was about you. It's what's in him.

And, SMG is such annoyance that he keeps perpetuating the blame on wives.  He doesn't get laid so he makes the incorrect assumption no cheaters get laid.  This talk is abusive to victims.[/quote]

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