Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "Husband has been financially a disappointment "
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]It’s not too late to bounce back but you have to assess where your money is going and start cutting. For example, cut cable, get rid of your car, start cooking at home, cut alcohol and gym memberships, cut out the daily latte run. You never mentioned what you were spending your money on day to day so we can’t help with specifics. Use the Dave Ramsey method and start paying down the debt. It sounds like you and your husband were living for the moment and 8 years flew by and you realized that you’re in your mid-30s and want a baby now. You can take a few years to get you financial house in order. Your salary is not low and people raise children all the time for less. You can have a kid without owning a home (think NYC or SF) but you should have savings in the event of an emergency. And that means, you will need to work until you are both on sure footing. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
