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[quote=Anonymous]You can grieve for the life you wanted or you can get going on the life you want. You need to discuss your goals and dreams with dh and if not compatible then divorce. 8 years is plenty of time to have yearned for something more.

I got married at 32 and had children at 34 and 37. There is plenty of time for you to start new career, make more money, and have children. Start now. Find something you’d like to do that pays well and go for it.

Also, How do you even know if you can have kids. What if you can’t and you spent all this time not working more, not going back to school, developing a side gig, and being angry with dh about something that was never going to happen.

Have the conversation with dh this weekend so you have the answers you need and start living the life you want. You have no excuse. At your age you could divorce and live in a group house if you really have no money. You could work day job and then nights and weekends. In a year you’d have a small nest egg and breathing room to decide n next career. If you stay and stay unhappy then you can no longer blame anyone but yourself.

Oh, and I also make quite a bit more than my dh. I have a great partner but I’ve always worked for the things I want.

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