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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly, OP, you sound like his Mother.  Your way of teaching your DH to clean the bathroom is how I teach my sons.  My DH knows how to clean a bathroom better than I do by learning from his Mother.  [b]If your DH is not cleaning the bathroom to your standards, then you should be the one with that chore, or you should learn to accept the way he does it. [/b] I mean, you can tell him you don't think it's clean enough, and if he wants you to teach him, then go for it, but don't think it helps any relationship to treat your partner like a child.[/quote]

You are the one being trained here, and you don't even see it.  [/quote]

It’s sad that they don’t seem to get it. They’re being gas lit.[/quote]

Very sad....it took me a LONG time to recognize the pattern in my own marriage.   Passive aggressive behavior, gaslighting, etc.    It sucks that I was so stupid when I was young.   My consolation is only that I'm raising two incredible boys that will be wonderful husbands and fathers with hopefully none of those traits, and two girls that will never stand for it and know well ahead of time how to choose a spouse.  [/quote]

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