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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m 3 months out from discovery (24 years together).  He desperately wants the marriage and doing all of the things you cited.

I know myself.  I will NEVER get over it.  It took place over 4 years.

I have a 12 and 14 year old.  I don’t know if I can hang on until they go to college.

I’m so f-omg disgusted with him and the married woman he cheated with.

I hope they both die.

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3 months is still really raw. You have every right to feel as you do. If you really want it to work out, assess in six months, a year, and see if you are making progress. But it will scar you forever. I am five years out, we are together but I still hurt every day [/quote]

I really wish the OW/OM and betrayer could know the severe pain and psychological damage they inflict on the innocent parties.  In my case, the OW was married and used to cyber stalk me (I wasn’t even aware).

I agree.  I’ve head it can take 1/2 the length of the marriage to remotely recover.  For those 20+ years in, that’s a lifetime wasted.[/quote]

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