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Reply to "Resentful that ILs only want to help DH’s son and not mine"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I can understand why you'd be resentful that your son is being treated differently when you've put in so much effort to treat both boys fairly. But your ILs aren't under any obligation to treat your son the same way they treat their own grandson. You need to figure out a way to minimize the effect this may have on your son and the boys' relationship with each other. You set the tone here. If you are bitter and resentful, your son is going to pick up on that. If you view this as a benefit to your family as a whole, your son will likely view it similarly. [/quote] +1!!!!!! Plus like others said, you can use the extra $ saved towards your son's fund. Would the husband be on board with that? [/quote]
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