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Reply to "NYT: In the Covid-19 Economy, You Can Have a Kid or a Job. You Can’t Have Both."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Unpopular opinion, I know. But maybe having more parents at home will bring back family values. [/quote] Which family values? We live in the society that does not value families. If we did there would be a much better social safety net[/quote] family values to instill: #1 - Teach our kids to help others. Rather than spend all our money and time on extracurriculars, working to afford huge houses, etc., donate time and resources to families in need. Open our homes to help single mothers. Prepare extra food for families who don't have time. The first step is for you to teach your children to value family and become a social safety net.[/quote] This is really rich, because single mothers are suffering terribly right now. And also shows how out of touch you are because most dual-income parents are not working for the reasons you profess. But keep telling yourself that if it makes you feel special. Bye bye.[/quote] Those with resources are the ones that are [b]supposed[/b] to be helping those you're mentioning. But keep making excuses about why YOU aren't able to help anyone else and just complain about lack of social safety nets. People want fixes but aren't willing to sacrifice to help. It's unfortunate. There is absolutely no reason for people to live in mil $ homes, spend thousands on club teams then complain about how hard it would be to live on one income. I know plenty of families making sacrifices to have a parent stay home pre-covid. [/quote] 1. You don't know anything about PP's level of volunteerism. [b]2. Volunteerism cannot ever compensate for lack of a comprehensive, nationwide social safety net.[/b] 3. Dual-income families, with rare exceptions, HAVE TO BE DUAL-INCOME to afford a home, food, and healthcare. Not luxuries. The basics.[/quote] Do you think anything is going to fix this overnight? Instead of complaining, teach your children the value of bolded and maybe they'll grow up with ideas about how to enact a comprehensive, nationwide social net. [/quote]
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