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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I will do anything to protect my two boys from knowing their father is a cheater because 80% of boys who have fathers that cheat do it themselves.  I don’t want to destroy their identity.  My husband is a good father even if he was shitty to me by cheating.

It is very painful and prevented me from confiding in many people I would normally turn to because I think it would get back to my boys unintentionally.

As much as I hate him for what he did, I bite my tongue hard about what he did.  I will take it to the grave so they have a chance of breaking the multigenerational infidelity that has plagued his side of the family.

Your situation, OP, might be different because you mentioned he had multiple girlfriends. I would strongly advise that your daughter gets lots of therapy to deal with both the divorce and dad’s infidelity so she doesn’t grow up with daddy issues and do the things we despise about the women with these issues, e.g., screwing married, unavailable men.[/quote]

Curious, my husbands family is the opposite.   My fil's dad was a philanderer and it really disappointed him.  He leftmy fils family to be with another woman.
 
My fil was very honest and faithful for that reason and raised my husband to be the same way.  My bil's have made a few mistakes but they are also unmarried.  [/quote]

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