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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If they had a f*cked up childhood--a parent was an alcoholic or a serial cheater...RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NO matter how much they swear they won't turn out that way...wait 20 years and tell me what happens.[/quote]

My husband's mother was an alcoholic and he's an amazing person and father and I wouldn't trade him for anything.  You are wrong about this.

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NP here.  My DH's dad is a miserable NPD and alcoholic and my DH is amazing husband, dad, person, coworker and boss. His brother on the other hand is just like FIL.  I will echo what the prior PP has said - people from messed up families usually turn out very messed up.  My SIL (DH's brother's wife)  pays for a mentally sick husband and a mentally sick FIL and has had a nightmare life.   Now, my DH decided not to be like his dad and so left home early, had very little to do with his family and basically moved to a new country - so I did not suffer.

BUT, my ahole FIL and BIL hit us for money and bailing us out - by mistreating my SIL and niece - we are still getting sucked into their drama. [/quote]

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