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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is no chance he would have to pay alimony so take this deal as quickly as you can before he gets any advice.[/quote]

And if you both make similar salaries, there’s no way he’d be paying child support either.

He’s being generous.

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It depends on how he views his obligations.  My ex was paying me child support, despite us having similar incomes.  But he did not pay a penny more for anything.  Medical insurance, deductibles, summer camps, babysitters - I was ultimately responsible for everything.  I had my own reasons to accept the deal, but I don’t think it was that generous.[/quote]

The difference is you are paying all expenses.  If child is at house 50/50 then the expenses are all shared.  Child support goes by time share so if its all shared and each parent pays for the needs during their time, no child support.  If you are paying everything and get child support, that is reasonable.  That is what child support is for.  To cover his portion of the expenses but you still need to cover a portion and how you choose to spend the money is your choice.[/quote]

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