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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am blindsided.

I don’t want out but he does.

We’ve been married for 6 years. We have one child together. He said we are too different.

He is introverted and I am very extroverted. This weekend I went away with my family: my sister, brother, parents and my nieces and nephews. DH didn’t want to come, he stayed home with our son. When I tried to FaceTime or text, he declined the calls and didn’t answer.

He doesn’t like my family. He says we are too enmeshed. I see my family about once a week and he sees his once per year, if that. This has been an ongoing point of contention in our marriage for years. He agreed to come to Thanksgiving and Christmas only. He said he is getting tired of declining invites every week. He doesn’t like my family at all, they’re very republican or just not interested in politics. My husband is left wing and doesn’t agree with their ambivalence or lack of interest. My dad is an alcoholic and he doesn’t want our son exposed to that, which was another point of contention in our marriage. He complained that even when things are going well, he has to repeat himself 2-3x when he asks me a question, we never agree on anything, and we are constantly bickering. He said I need to find a man who wants to be a part of my family and do the weekend camping trips or attend the birthday parties. I’m so hurt.

He has asked for 50/50 custody. He said he will take less of the split of equity in the home in exchange for no alimony. He is offering $500/month or child support. We make the same amount of income. He wants to file in 6 months after a trial separation and to give us time to pay down our mutual debts. [/quote]. Gee, who wouldn’t want to hang out with a Republican alcoholics[/quote]

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