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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You know what, packing up someone's belongings is tough work.  If they did it, you need to be grateful.  It was your work to do.  And they did it.

Your attitude needs some serious adjustment.  No photos for you.  Sorry.  If you had closed up his estate, then you could have saved whatever you wanted.[/quote]

It is tough work for most people. He did almost all of this himself before going into hospice house. You have probably never known as neat and organized person as my dad who downsized a lot before going into hospice. They could have packed up what they wanted to keep in only a few hours. Anything left, like clothes, were donated. He was the extreme opposite of a hoarder. Most people fall somewhere, in the middle, so packing up their stuff would be a lot of work. If someone gave you everything, in someone else’s small estate, and you did not want to set aside photos, when you had asked them beforehand, what they wanted, and then you deliberately decided not to send the photos, then you would be a very petty person. It is more understandable if they forgot to do this.

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