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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The stepfamily all knew beforehand that we were all only able to make one trip there. This was not a request afterwards to ask for photos. They volunteered to send them and sounded happy that I did not want anything else. My dad made everything as simple as possible because he knew what was involved for me to make one trip by myself. DH had to work, while also watching the kids, one who has special needs. His sister was able to come help him for a few days but could not take more time off work when I went to visit my dad.

The people who are judgy that I did not go back for the service need to consider that he did not want a service, they decide to do this themselves, without asking me, and scheduled it within a week of his passing. It would have been difficult to go in such short notice. It did not make sense to try to so when it was not what he wanted us to do.[/quote]

OP they did all this to please themselves with little thought of you or your Dads wishes. I’m sorry. [/quote]

If op wanted a say, she could handle it.  They did a tiny grave side service.  That was nice. [/quote]

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