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[quote=Anonymous]Give yourself some time. You don't need to be his secret keeper. Definitely make sure you confide in at least one friend. However, if you plan to try to reconcile you might not want to share this with the world. I think there is a lot of stigma around taking someone back after they've cheated. I really wanted to try with my ex, but she ended up leaving me for the AP. 5 years out it's still really hard on our kid (50/50 non-contentious coparenting). Even though we didn't reconcile, I'm glad I only walked away after giving it my all. I wouldn't tell my kid that's what happened, but I will always know that I tried to do right by her. 5 years later, my life is so much better than it was when I was married. Know that even if you don't want a divorce, you can still thrive.[/quote]
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