Reply to Support Group for middle aged husbands not having sex

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Support Group for middle aged husbands not having sex"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So a man can be a jerk all the time JUST ENOUGH so that she won't divorce him, and he feels he can continue to be a jerk to her and expect her to put out?  She decides that she will stay in the marriage for the children which in many cases benefits the children and their finances, including the husband's.

I swear, some men act like sex is the only thing that matters in the marriage. Yes, sex is important, but seriously, you come across as this is the only thing you care about. You don't seem to be *listening* to anything women have posted here.  No wonder you are in a sexless marriage.  How's your strategy working for you?  Not so great, it seems.

Thankfully, my DH did learn to listen to me, and now he gets sex regularly. [/quote]
Sex is not the ONLY thing that matters to a man in a marriage. However it is an ESSENTIAL part of a sustainable marriage (for men).

Shame on any husband for being a jerk! (see I HAVE listened) His wife should tell him he's a jerk, certainly should not have unwanted sex with a jerk, and if he keeps being a jerk, divorce him.

But you explained that she stays (for all the benefits of marriage) and remains sexless (because he's a jerk). Here now we have a platonic room mate marriage of convenience. You need to understand that [b]fidelity cannot be expected in this kind of marriage[/b]. The husband, being a normal man who needs sex, simply fixes this in 15 seconds by declaring the marriage open. Only in this way can the room mater marriage survive. Him going elsewhere benefits her: she gets to stay sexlessly married, just like she wants.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics