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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Stop with the "we" bashing. It's dumb. It's a quarter million dollar family decision and kids are not equipped to handle it alone. You guys aren't cute, aren't clever, and aren't exposing some Freudian-level genius analysis except some revelations about yourselves. It's a completely legitimate way of speaking used by many normal, kind, practical, parents. And no, I am not the PP. So stop. [/quote] UVA Associate Dean of Admissions begs to differ. http://uvaapplication.blogspot.com/2013/11/the-role-of-parents-in-process.html[/quote] Then he is a petulent jerk about the issue of the use of a phrase also.[/quote] So do the folks at Tufts: https://admissions.tufts.edu/blogs/inside-admissions/post/for-parents-to-ed-or-not-to-ed/ I have adult friends who say “We are applying early decision, we just don’t know where yet.” I have also spoken with parents absolutely convinced their son must apply early or he will have no chance of being admitted. Please remember -“we” are not going to college. Your daughter or son is heading off to college. As parents we can live vicariously through our children but not tether ourselves to them. It is the time to let your son take flight and soar. Our job, as parents of Early Decision applicants or Regular Decision applicants, is to be sure to articulate any non-negotiable restrictions; like geography – distance from home, financial commitments – how much the family can afford to put toward college expenses, etc. Then we need to take a deep breath and step back. [/quote]
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