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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a similar issue where I’m maxed out and dh travels a lot. My in-laws want us to visit every month on the only weekend dh ever has at home. I’m breastfeeding an infant so it’s not like dh can take the kids without me. Th[b]They refuse to visit our much larger house with a dedicated guest room.[/b]eir ask is so out of bounds.  At one point I was ready to divorce dh over it. [/quote]

I don't think you can use breastfeeding an infant as an excuse to keep your in-laws away from your baby for months on end.  If you *must* be with your baby 24/7 and can not pump milk for your husband to take with him on the visits then you either go with him on these visits or you open your home to your in-laws once a month or you meet them in a neutral place like a restaurant.

You can't set up an impossible scenario where your husband's parents can't get to know their grandkids because you are so, so tired and it is too much work.  Your husband and your ILs would grow to resent the heck out of you.  Luckily they are only little for a short time.[/quote]

NP. Did you not read the above? In-laws aren't making the effort. Their only weekend together each month, with an infant, is definitely too much work in the above scenerio. [/quote]

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