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+1 Imago. My DH and I did Imago in couples counseling before getting married to help with our communication. We still occasionally use the techniques.

Re the OP, the thing I changed about myself: I too worked on myself. [b]Another way of putting it is I became selfish and started to put myself first. [/b]I had put myself last (no one had asked me to) for almost a decade while having and raising kids. Concrete changes include going into therapy, losing 17 lbs, working out daily, prioritizing my sleep, spending money and time on my appearance (e.g., new flattering clothes), asking for more sexually, getting an IUD, pursuing creative writing, spending more time with friends, more dates with DH, accepting party invitations, telling DH that he must take his body and health seriously (he gained over 100 lbs over the course of our marriage and has developed lot of health issues that he's ignored; so far he's lost @ 15 lbs and is taking medication for his chronic health conditions). It's making me happier overall and a much more vital partner for DH.
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I think this is really really important.[/quote]

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