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[quote=Anonymous]OP - I am so confused by your first sentence. I can't get past your first sentence where you are questioning IF you should feel it's inappropriate? Of course it's inappropriate. Geez Op. However Op, a couple thoughts:
- your son is not unique. Not unique. And not unique if he lies to you. There is no reason to take it personally. This has NOTHING to do with his relationship with you. Do not make this about you. His relationship WITH YOU is the furthest thing on his mind.
- young men trying to have their first sexual experience has been happening since the beginning of time. There is nothing new here.
- Most important is -since you know or suspect- activity YOUR son would be involved in and HER parents (or reasonable judgement of most parents) would disapprove of, you have the absolute responsibility to prevent it from happening. Because you know.
- Btw, I feel differently ...if it happened and you didn't know. I wouldn't be someone who thinks any less of your son, or the young woman. They want to be together and learn about each other without the pressure of time constraints. That may or may not mean they are ready/or will perform intercourse. There is a lot of getting-to-know each other behavior that doesn't reach that description. And even if, they are likely to take precautions.[/quote]

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