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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why can't you just do more freelance hours. Why is the only option what you are doing now or a full time job in an office?[/quote]

If she’s freelancing maybe she has a few regular clients and it’s difficult to find new business? There are a thousand reasons why she can’t just double or triple the number of clients she has whenever she feels like it.

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OP here. This is correct. And why should it be my responsibility to make more so that I can cover more of the childcare, when he requires FT childcare to make any money at all?[/quote]

I don’t know what you’re looking for.

Just about everyone agrees the situation you describe is bullshyt, yet you’re the one who wants to stay married to this guy. I’m the one who posted up thread that you would be better off divorced and I don’t say that lightly. Your husband is very controlling about money and doesn’t want to pay for childcare expenses AND you’re married! This is only going to get worse as your child gets older and has more needs. He’s not going to want pay for any of it. If you’re divorced - he has to.

Yet, You’re married to a deadbeat and you want to stay... What did you come here hoping to hear? I’m genuinely curious.

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