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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes for men sex is most important by far. After that general companionship and what they want there varies by the guy. They really don’t care that much about kids and expect the wife to take care of that- particularly the day to day- but would never admit it out loud.   I’ve yet to meet a man who truly cares about household matters beyond not pissing his wife off. For women this list is basically reversed (with kids as #1) and voila- the reason so many people are unhappily married. [/quote]
short... succinct... and on point.  End thread.

-signed a woman, married about 20 years, two kids.[/quote]

So....you're ok with a guy that doesn't "care that much about kids"???

My DH cares a lot about me and our kids. [/quote]

NP here.  I am pretty sure my husband would die for our kids, but he isn’t really invested in their day to day.  More like George Bailey than Atticus Finch.  [/quote]
exactly.

Of course my DH loves and cares for our kids, but he just doesn't care about day to day stuff as much. He does it because he knows I care about it.  How many dads do you think research daycares and summer camps.  I did all of it, and he has very little opinion about what summer camp our kids should go to.

Also, I bet most men don't really care if they have kids or not.  Many go along with it because that's what the woman wants.  IMO, most men would probably be happy not having kids so that they don't have to be responsible for anyone but themselves.[/quote]

+2. Yes exactly. My DH loves our kids but is not invested in the day to day really. He would have been totally fine not having kids. I think a lot of men are this way. [/quote]

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