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[quote=Anonymous]I’m a nanny who has been with my family for many years. With baby 1, the mum stayed home 6 months and just had me during the day. Baby 2, she had a night nurse and during the day I cared for the baby. No idea what Mum did on maternity leave because she wasn’t looking after the baby, just hung out with kid 1 and watched tv all day. I worked 60hrs a week on maternity leave plus there was a night nurse until Mum went back to work. Kid 1 is attached to me in a normal way. Kid 2 who Mum has lots of help with still screams when I leave to go home. Is very attached and no matter how I try to make things easier for transitions, loses it whenever I go home. She’s 7 now and I really think it’s because she didn’t spend time with her Mum when she was a baby. You should really do more with baby 2. [/quote]
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