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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think hiring a night nurse is a sensible compromise.  Having 24/7 care for three months probably means hiring three or four baby nurses to cover, which seems excessive.[/quote]

OP here. I want someone there during the day too so I can spend one on one time with my toddler and not disrupt her routine, etc.

Basically it would allow me to come and go as needed.

I know it is expensive but it'll make the transition so much easier. We can afford it so I don't see what the issue is.[/quote]
I would really think this through. It seems as if you are just putting off the transition for your toddler. You need to just go to your normal routine from day 1. Take the help at night so you are rested if needed, but I don’t think you’re being logical about this. It’s not a financial issue - all of my friends and I could easily afford that but only one did and it was an awful transition for her toddler once the 24/7 care was gone. To this day her older kids resent her younger ones. [/quote]

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