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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think hiring a night nurse is a sensible compromise.  Having 24/7 care for three months probably means hiring three or four baby nurses to cover, which seems excessive.[/quote]

OP here. I want someone there during the day too so I can spend one on one time with my toddler and not disrupt her routine, etc.

Basically it would allow me to come and go as needed.

I know it is expensive but it'll make the transition so much easier. We can afford it so I don't see what the issue is.[/quote]

Since money isn't the issue, maybe he doesn't like the idea of strangers underfoot for those first stressful months and I don't blame him for feeling that way.

Also it seems like you feel like a baby is confining and you can't leave the house since you mentioned coming and going as you please. If that's what you need and want,  go with formula feeding. This makes taking the baby out so much easier for you.  Then just go ahead and get a night nurse for a few weeks.[/quote]

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