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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is how my office affair started.  I wouldn’t say anything but I would pay attention.  [/quote]

Not saying anything kills me because it’s affecting how I interact with him.  I’m mad and probably cold because I’m pissed and anxious that he hiding something.  But as I said I’m afraid to drive this further nderground. My best case resolution would be something like - he says he’s been hiding this friend from me because[b] he thought I would be jealous[/b] and he feels bad about it, and then it’s out in the open and not a problem anymore.  I have close male work friends I socialize with but am Not trying to sleep with, why can’t he?[/quote]

Think this through, OP - why would he think you would be jealous about it if you had a work husband and you're fine with him going out with female colleagues?  I had a work husband with whom I did not have an affair, so I'm not saying that's what is happening here, nor that either of you are weird for spending time with colleagues of the opposite sex.  But why do you think your best case would be him saying he thought you'd be jealous?[/quote]

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